Will you have sex on the first date? What are your chances that she also wants you – we tell you the signs for this
If you want things to go well after the date, perfect home preparation is the be-all and end-all. Inspect the apartment before you go: Is it clean and tidy? Does it smell good? Are there any drinks? Look at yourself critically. Is your hair in place? Are you dressed appropriately? Do you smell good? Here we go! Is she the one? Here’s how to find out.
1. she takes her time at dinner
She talks to you at length, takes her time while eating? If she eats comfortably and talks to you nicely, it means that she feels comfortable in your presence. This gives hope for more! If she gobbles down her food in silence – you can rather interpret it as disinterest. The food is probably more important to her than you. Adapt – so: she drinks, you drink, she eats, you eat too. Unnoticed imitation connects!
2. she goes to the toilet
Watch her lips when she returns to the table. Did she touch up her lipstick or fix her hair? Bull’s-eye! She likes you – and she wants to please you, too. Use the situation for a compliment.
3. she shows disinterest
Excuse me? That’s right. This is called “feigned disinterest,” of course. Wait for the woman to let her gaze wander around the room. The crucial moment is when your eyes cross. Does she look away a little too quickly during this first eye contact? Then it has clicked! Other signs: She plays around with her jewelry or visibly takes a deep breath. But be careful: If you misinterpret, you lose! A glance is by no means an invitation. Maybe she’s just scanning the room for someone she knows. Wait for the following. If the woman is interested, she will look more often and more insistently at you – and let you catch her. If she is rather shy, she may only look briefly, but continue to turn her face to you to check you out of the corner of her eye.
4. she withstands your gaze
Look into her eyes for a moment longer than you usually do. In such a way that it becomes a bit uncomfortable. If she holds your gaze, she is interested. If not, she is not (yet). Next test: give her a compliment, one that a potential lover would make, . Try to incorporate her character – like this: “Your smile is so beautiful!” If she smiles or thanks you warmly, she’s interested.
5. it touches you
Pay attention to little things, because they matter! Does your date touch you lightly on the arm or back as you leave the restaurant? Physical contact is how people show affection and interest – you’re on a good path!
6. she does not reject your touch
By the way, you can test this out yourself the other way around. Put your hand on her arm and ask, “Excuse me, but do you actually want another drink?”” If she doesn’t immediately pull her arm away or move away, then you seem to be on the same wavelength.
7. she delays saying goodbye
You are standing next to the taxi/your car. Don’t miss the moment! When she stands close to you, is she smiling? Does she look deeply into your eyes while doing so? Perfect! She delays saying goodbye? Then dare to take the next step and ask her if she still wants to come to your place. If she agrees, your feeling was right; she likes you too. If she says no, you have to respect her decision.
Conclusion: Trust yourself and see where it leads you.
And now? Once you’ve arrived at your place, see how the evening goes. Approach carefully and continue to get to know her body language. Maybe you have a very direct woman in front of you, who now opens up to you and clearly formulates where the evening should lead for her. Is it a good fit for you? Jackpot! Shy women seem mysterious and may want to keep this a bit further – Give her time. If the chemistry is right, sooner or later the sparks will fly.