Is she interested or just being friendly? Women are often mysterious when it comes to what they really want. You can tell if you have a chance with a woman by these signals
She smiles, winks and runs her fingers through her hair – but what does that mean: does the girl just think you’re nice or is she secretly dreaming of a date with you? Does she see you as a buddy or a lover? If you could determine it so easily!
Many people (and therefore also women) are usually sparing with the expression of their needs. That’s why it’s so difficult to say what they really want. This can be annoying, but it also makes flirting more exciting at the same time.
Is she into me? These 10 signs indicate a woman’s interest.
To help you at least minimize the risk of a rejection or a missed opportunity, here are 10 signs that a woman is interested.
1. she has time for you
A pretty clear signal of interest is the priority she gives you. An interested woman doesn’t leave you hanging for days after a WhatsApp message, she takes your calls and finds time for a meeting. If, on the other hand, she keeps begging or you feel like you’re chasing her, the interest probably isn’t mutual – or she’s still in the middle of something else in her head and heart.
2. she seeks eye contact
You know the tingling sensation of prolonged eye contact with a stranger? If someone is interested, she/he searches the other person’s eyes to see if he/she is also looking. But be careful: if someone averts her eyes, it’s not necessarily a signal of disinterest (unlike these 11 signs). She could likewise be looking away out of embarrassment. However, a repeated, furtive glance from across the room is more likely to indicate quiet admiration.
3. she asks many questions
If she just nods silently or looks over her shoulder while you talk, she’s not interested. However, if she asks questions, she is definitely with you. She is not more curious than average, but tries to find a common topic of conversation. Even if you tell her about an exciting soccer game or another topic that doesn’t really interest her, she will still hang on your every word – a good sign.
4. she remembers little things
She remembers that you mentioned at the last meeting that you wanted to watch a certain movie. Or she mentions that you once casually mentioned a hobby and inquires about it. Someone who remembers little things almost certainly has you on their mind.
5. she is playful
She is playful in your presence: she makes childish jokes or punches you in the arm in fun. Some women actually get playful again when they think a man is great.
6. she compliments you
She compliments your good taste in movies or your style of dress. Someone who finds another attractive likes to give compliments. By the way, it’s also a compliment if she laughs at your jokes, even if they’re not particularly funny.
7.she comes closer to you and touches you.
When you are out in a group, she often chooses to sit next to you or tries to walk by your side. Or she moves close to you or touches you as if by accident. Other means of making physical contact: Every now and then, she puts her hand on your arm for a short time or waves it through your hair. By the way, most women can hardly resist these 3 men’s hairstyles.
8. she asks about your love life
Is she interested in your ex-partners? If she specifically asks about your love life or subliminally wants to find out if you’re taken, that’s a good sign she’s interested. What you should never do: make her jealous with other women or the ex-girlfriend to get her off your back – that will definitely backfire!
9. she follows you on social media
On your profile in the career network you suddenly discover a well-known visitor? On Instagram she suddenly likes your pictures? In these cases, you can be pretty sure she’s already scoured the internet for snippets about you. Don’t worry: this is a good sign! She’s not looking for missteps, she’s looking for pictures or information that she can skillfully incorporate into the next conversation.
10. she prolongs the conversation
Your conversation is nearing its end, but instead of letting the conversation ripple out, she keeps asking questions that drag out the conversation? It’s a sign that she likes being around you.
Bottom line: trust your instincts
Based on the way a woman talks to you, behaves and looks at you, you can interpret her interest. Pay attention to physical signals: Does she blush when you talk to her? Do her eyes light up when she smiles at you? If several of the 10 signals are true, you should just dare and ask her out (again). Chances are good that she sees you as more than just a good friend!